Tom - My IBD Story

Name: Tom
Year of Birth 2004
Lives: East Sussex, UK
Type of IBD: Crohn's disease
Diagnosis Date: December 2010 (aged six-and-a-half)

My name is Tom and I’m 11-years-old. I am the leading goal scorer for the under 13 Grasshopper Rockets team. I also trampoline for Sky High and compete at a national level. Oh, and I also have Crohn’s disease - it sucks!

I was six-and-a-half when I was diagnosed. I think I was lucky as it only took a couple of months from being ill to getting my diagnosis.

I’d been feeling poorly for a few weeks and on December 10, 2010, my parents took me to Eastbourne hospital because I was so ill. I ended up being taken from Eastbourne to Brighton in an ambulance on blue lights. I spent five weeks in Brighton children’s hospital (Royal Alexandra). It meant I missed being a shepherd in my school nativity.

While I was in hospital I had a colonoscopy and upper endoscopy under general anaesthetic. The doctors could see ulcers in my digestive system and they diagnosed me with Crohn’s disease. I hadn’t heard of Crohn’s disease before and neither had my family.

I wasn’t allowed to eat for four weeks. I was on HDU on Christmas Day being tube fed as Modulen (a form of liquid nutrition) made me sick. I had a picc line put in as I had no veins left for them to access.

I was losing so much blood when I went to the toilet that I had five blood transfusions while I was in hospital.

The day that the dietician said I could eat again was the best day of my life. Jacket potato and butter was so yummy after four weeks without eating. It was all gone within seconds.

The hardest things were the NG (nasogastric tube) they put through my nose into my stomach and being attached to monitors and drips all the time. Sometimes I needed the toilet but because I was attached I didn’t make it in time. I also didn’t like the steroids I was being given.

My best friends came to visit me in hospital and made me a get well soon card.

Going back to school was good as I had missed my friends. I did get a bit bullied as I had put on so much weight from the huge amount of steroids I was on.

At school I have a fast pass so I can leave class and go to the toilet whenever I want, but it can be awkward to use as I can get asked a lot of questions.

Things were going well. I had started to have Infliximab infusions while I was in hospital and was also taking steroids and azathioprine. Before I got ill I was playing football a lot and had just started trampolining. I wanted to just get back to doing it all again but I had to start slowly.

In the following June (2011) I had chicken pox and after that I started to get ill again from my Crohn’s. I had to go back into hospital and I was put on Modulen. I didn’t like it but it was better than having an NG tube! This time I spent four weeks in hospital but the doctors said I could still eat and I loved the cooked breakfast every morning. Again I needed to have a picc line.

When I felt up to it I was able to get out and about. Mum pushed me in a wheelchair or we would catch the bus into Brighton. I spent my 7th birthday in hospital. We had a party on the beach and mum bought me some black Converse boots that I really wanted. I was allowed out the day after my birthday. I think my doctor just wanted me to stay in so he could spend my birthday with me!

After I came out of hospital people were saying to me how well I looked - but inside I didn’t feel it.

After this I managed to stay out of hospital, but there have been a few flares along the way.

I lost my granddad two years ago and I didn’t tell mum that I was having another flare up at the time. I thought she had enough to deal with.

In 2015 I went through an eight month flare and another started on Christmas Eve, lasting for three months. I had a few short courses of steroids to get on top of them.

Around three years ago I had a portacath fitted after lots of failed attempts to get lines in for my Infliximab infusions. Because of my trampolining where they placed the portacath was really important so that it didn’t get in the way. In the end we decided the right hand side of my chest was the best place for it. Even though I was out of action for a couple of months afterwards it has been great and has made going for my six weekly infusions so much easier.

Since getting diagnosed with Crohn’s I’ve had nine blood transfusions, a nuclear scan, MRI scan, ultrasounds, X-rays, three endoscopies, countless lines, two picc lines, a portacath, 56 Infliximab infusions and three iron infusions.

But, I’ve also travelled around the country to compete in trampolining, winning many medals, I helped my football team get promoted this season and I’m doing well at school.

Crohn’s disease is hard but you just have to not think about it too much and try to get on with things as best you can.

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I am 11-years-old and was diagnosed with Crohn's disease when I was six-and-a-half.

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Alan Price

4 August 2016 at 17:55

Tom, I know exactly how you feel. I may be much older than you but what we go through is like a game of 'snap.' I too spent time in hospital, from New Year's Eve of 2007 for a week. I saw the fireworks at Brighton Pier from my bed in RSCH. Rather surreal. Years went by, visits to the doctor, more problems and eventually my diagnosis made in 2015, even though I knew what my problem was. I was on Azathioprine, but it made me a little ill, so now I'm on Adalimumab (Humira) injections. My IBD has improved, not cured, but I feel somewhat better. Staying positive helps. However, what helps more is knowing that family and others, like you, know that we are a family of IBD friends who are always here, and always willing to listen. Keep fighting Tom, it's the young like you, who can make a huge difference to children who are struggling to cope. If you show you cope with your head held high, then others will too. Take care and be strong, not easy I know. Al. Peacehaven.


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